Severe ME/CFS and on disability, still no overall improvement with pacing and rest
- Condition
- ME/CFS
- At worst
- Severe (mostly bedbound)
- Ill for
- Not stated
- Last post
- Jul 2026
In their words
- Condition: ME/CFS
She was the first provider to ask if I’ve heard of ME/CFS—it was another 18 months from then before an actual doctor diagnosed me.
In context ↗ - At worst: Severe
I’m severe and my biggest PEM trigger is emotional stress.
In context ↗ - Now: No benefit
I’m severe and my biggest PEM trigger is emotional stress.
In context ↗
Read from 26 of their posts and comments; links to the 15 this page draws on
Summary
They are severely ill with ME/CFS and on disability, diagnosed only after a psychologist first raised it and 18 more months passed; emotional stress was their biggest PEM trigger. They relied on pacing, radical rest and a health psychologist, and said aripiprazole helped their depression while a switch to venlafaxine mildly eased pain. An acupressure mat helped pain and sleep. They described themselves as severe in their posts.
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What they tried
Also tried
Their words about each treatment
- Health Psychologist/Pain Psychologist · Helped
I’ve been working with a Health Psychologist/Pain Psychologist for 2 years ... she has helped me with this illness more than any other provider has.
- Pacing · Helped
learn pacing strategies to prevent PEM
In context ↗ - Garmin watch · Helped
my Garmin watch is a fantastic tool!!!
In context ↗ - Bearable app · Helped
I use the Bearable app for daily tracking of symptoms, activity, mood, energy, meds, food, and sleep.
In context ↗ - Radical rest · Helped
Every time I put in those few days of REALLY resting, it brings me back to baseline so much faster than if I tried to rush the process.
In context ↗ - Weed · Helped
Weed. Klonopin.
In context ↗ - Venlafaxine (after Prozac) · Helped
I made a similar move from Prozac to Venlafaxine for the pain benefits of an SNRI over an SSRI.
In context ↗ - OTC sleep meds · Helped
I use OTC sleep meds to force naps.
In context ↗ - aripiprazole · Helped
I started aripiprazole for treatment-resistant depression ... I noticed a difference in my depression, but I’m not sure if I can point to a reduction in other symptoms.
In context ↗ - art therapy support group · Helped
I also attend an art therapy support group for people with chronic illness, and it’s restorative
In context ↗ - acupressure mat · Helped
My acupressure mat has been crucial for falling asleep on many a night.
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Their path
How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, in the order they describe; they don’t give enough times to place each step. Hover or tap a point. 1 step says too little to place on the scale and is only in the table. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.
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| When | What happened | Where they were | After |
|---|---|---|---|
| — | ME/CFS onset; trigger not statedit was another 18 months from then before an actual doctor diagnosed me.In context ↗ | Not stated | |
| 2025-10-10 | two years of work with a health psychologist on pacing, ACT and supportshe has helped me with this illness more than any other provider has.In context ↗ | Severe | CBT and psychotherapy |
| 2026-04-07 | switched from Prozac to venlafaxine; pain eased slightlyIt has the same effect on my mental health symptoms as the Prozac used to, and it mildly takes the edge off the pain.In context ↗ | Severe | |
| 2026-05-01 | aripiprazole lifted treatment-resistant depressionI noticed a difference in my depressionIn context ↗ | Severe | Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole |
| 2026-05-24 | still severe; emotional stress the biggest PEM triggerI’m severe and my biggest PEM trigger is emotional stress.In context ↗ | Severe |
Symptoms mentioned
Their words about their symptoms
- Post-exertional malaise
I’m severe and my biggest PEM trigger is emotional stress.
In context ↗ - Light & noise sensitivity
I sometimes put on my blackout sleep mask to listen to shows that are familiar or that I don’t need to follow visually.
In context ↗ - Pain & fibromyalgia
Learning to tuck my tailbone when positioning myself ended up saving me a lot of pain.
In context ↗ - Sleep problems
my resulting sleep is particularly non-restorative
In context ↗ - Anxiety & low mood
I started aripiprazole for treatment-resistant depression
In context ↗ - POTS & dysautonomia
Yup, what everyone else said, BUT I know for me that it’s very uncomfortable, if nothing else.
In context ↗ - Headaches & migraine
Good for headaches and calming myself down, too.
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