ME/CFS and still ill with no improvement; return to work lasted under half a day
- Condition
- ME/CFS
- At worst
- Severe (mostly bedbound)
- Ill for
- 7.5 years
- Last post
- Sep 2026
In their words
- Condition: ME/CFS
I have ME/CFS since 2019.
In context ↗ - At worst: Severe
Portable shampoo bowl for when I can't wash my hair myself. ... I move a lot less!
- Now: No benefit
I went back to work because *I* was thinking maybe I just needed to pass a readaptation phase and... I could not even finish half a day.
In context ↗
Read from 27 of their posts and comments; links to the 18 this page draws on
Summary
Has had ME/CFS since 2019 and remains ill: a return to work ended after less than half a day in 2024. Relies on an adjustable bed, bed desk, Loop earplugs and a chiropractor for pacing. Takes Biphentin for ADHD — an earlier course seemed to make things worse by encouraging push-through, but they are back on it — plus CBD/CBG for migraines and muscle pain; lost 50 pounds on intermittent fasting.
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What they tried
Also tried
Their words about each treatment
- Biphentin · Worse
I was taking Biphentin before ME and I stopped taking it - we think it made me worst since it was making me push through
In context ↗ - Journaling · Helped
I started journaling last year and it really helps me a lot!
In context ↗ - Elimination diet (dairy, soy) · No change
I had to stop eating dairy products and it was my favorite food. Then I had to stop eating soy.
In context ↗ - Intermittent fasting · Helped
It's simple (you just have to resist the urge to eat a part of the day) and it helps. I lost 50 pounds with it in about one year!
In context ↗ - Loop earplugs · Helped
When I feel too sensitive to sounds I use loop earplugs and it helps a lot
In context ↗ - Going back to work · Worse
I went back to work because *I* was thinking maybe I just needed to pass a readaptation phase and... I could not even finish half a day.
In context ↗ - Neuro-optometry, new prescription and eye exercises · Helped
my optometrist sent me to a colleague who specialized in neuro-optometry and after tests and all, she changed my prescription, proposed exercices and it went better since then.
In context ↗ - Heated blanket · Helped
Was advised to get one by other PWEM last year when I started being cold all the time and now I use it all the time. It really changed my life!
In context ↗ - Bed desk · Helped
I had it for 5 years and it helped a lot.
In context ↗ - Phone support · Not said
After two tendinitis related to my use of a phone, I take no chance for a prolonged use of my phone.
In context ↗ - Bedroom reorganization · Helped
Reorganization of my bedroom ... which helps me feel less isolated
In context ↗ - Chiropractor · Helped
My chiro helps as much as my doctor ... She helps me a lot with pacing
In context ↗ - CBD/CBG capsules and topical · Helped
I use CBD/CBG capsules because it's easier to manage and I also use it in topic (stick, cream, roll on) for migraines and muscle pain.
In context ↗ - Classical music and white noise app · Helped
Classical music via apps like Idagio and a white noise app help a lot!
In context ↗ - Adapted hobbies · Helped
switching from books to audiobooks, less tv and more podcasts
In context ↗ - Undercut hairstyle · Helped
My hairdresser proposed an undercut... and I'm never going back!!
In context ↗ - Portable shampoo bowl · Helped
Portable shampoo bowl for when I can't wash my hair myself.
In context ↗ - Adjustable bed · Helped
it changed my life. It's not only helpful for comfort and pacing, but being able to adapt my position so easily and as often as I need to, made a lot of pain vanish
In context ↗ - Adjustable overbed table · Helped
Adjustable overbed table.
In context ↗ - Sleeping with hair braided · Helped
Sleeping with my hair braided to avoid having to brush them.
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Their path
How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, with time counted from when the illness began. Hover or tap a point. The chart starts 5.8 years after onset: the story doesn’t say how ill they were before that. 1 step says too little to place on the scale and is only in the table. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.
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| When | What happened | Where they were |
|---|---|---|
| 2019 | ME/CFS onsetI have ME/CFS since 2019.In context ↗ | Not stated |
| 2024-11 | tried returning to work, could not finish half a dayI went back to work because *I* was thinking maybe I just needed to pass a readaptation phase and... I could not even finish half a day.In context ↗ | Severe |
| 2025 | vision improved after neuro-optometry assessment and exercisesshe changed my prescription, proposed exercices and it went better since then.In context ↗ | Severe |
| 2026-05 | adjustable bed and pacing support reduced painbeing able to adapt my position so easily and as often as I need to, made a lot of pain vanishIn context ↗ | Severe |
| 2026-09-06 | still ill, back on Biphentin and pacingSo I'm back on Biphentin, but I need to take care of pacing even more.In context ↗ | Severe |
Adverse events
- Methylphenidate (Ritalin, Concerta)“we think it made me worst since it was making me push through” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
Symptoms mentioned
Their words about their symptoms
- Post-exertional malaise
without something to help me manage my ADHD, I keep putting myself in PEM
In context ↗ - Light & noise sensitivity
When I feel too sensitive to sounds I use loop earplugs and it helps a lot
In context ↗ - Headaches & migraine
I also use it in topic (stick, cream, roll on) for migraines and muscle pain
In context ↗ - Pain & fibromyalgia
for migraines and muscle pain
In context ↗ - Vision problems
Yes! Last year my optometrist sent me to a colleague who specialized in neuro-optometry and after tests and all, she changed my prescription, proposed exercices and it went better since then.
In context ↗ - Temperature regulation
when I started being cold all the time and now I use it all the time
In context ↗ - Anxiety & low mood
I have experienced depression and stress, and anxiety, and it doesn't feel like it at all
In context ↗ - Gut problems
Then I still have problems, so I guess I'll have to gave up something else soon.
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