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ME/CFS Severe → much betterIll 12 years before improvingNeeds ongoing treatment

15-Year Battle with Severe ME/CFS: Here's What Finally Worked! (Martina's Story)

Condition
ME/CFS
At worst
Severe (mostly bedbound)
Ill before improving
12 years
Published
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In their words
  • Condition: ME/CFSit took me 11 years to get the right diagnosis that was an ecfs Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • At worst: Severespent a long time severely ill following the usual medical path Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Now: Much betterI still have to do pacing to this day Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Began after: another virusthen there came this virus and then my body said no

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Summary

Martina was severely ill for years after a fever in 2009, before her ME/CFS diagnosis at 11 years. Pacing helped her stabilise and avoiding dairy eased her gut pain, but a sudden bereavement undid those gains. Two years of psychotherapy and expressive writing, then trauma release exercises (TRE), brought the biggest change. She later became self-employed, still paces, and says she must lie down for two hours after 30 minutes of activity.

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What they tried

Also tried

Pacing· Helped · wore offRailen's channel and book (mindset change)· HelpedSetting boundaries (permission slip)· HelpedPaleo diet· No changeFunctional medicine· No changeSupplements· No changeOther restrictive diets· WorseScar treatment (old belly scar)· WorseSomatic experiencing· Not saidbreath coach· Not said
Their words about each treatment
  • Pacing · Helpedthe first thing I started with was pacing it was helpful Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Avoiding dairy · Helpedthe most helpful thing was avoiding Dairy and I still do that Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Paleo diet · No changeall these paleo things um uh weren't helpful for me Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Other restrictive diets · Worsesome diets I think were even more harmful Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Functional medicine · No changeI went into this functional medicine stuff and I thought that would be the solution for everything but it wasn't Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Supplements · No changeI spent two much money on supplements and I think there was not really a big difference Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Railen's channel and book (mindset change) · Helpedthe mindset change that was you ra and you and your channel Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • ANS rewi program (Dan NOA) · HelpedI did his program ANS rewi and really like that program Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Classical CBT with a psychotherapist · HelpedI had a psychotherapist fortunately it was the classical CBT Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Expressive writing (JournalSpeak) · HelpedJournal speak and this is a form of expressive writing Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • EAE (emotional awareness and expression therapy) · Helpedworking through my past was really something very important Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Somatic experiencing · Not saidI went a year in somatic experiencing Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Scar treatment (old belly scar) · WorseI saw that person and he did that scar treatment Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • TRE (tension and trauma release exercises) · Helped a lotthis method is called TR tension and Trauma release exercises Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Setting boundaries (permission slip) · HelpedI put it onto the wall at that time and found it really really helpful Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • breath coach · Not saidI worked with a press coach a while it was last year Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions

Approaches: CBT & mindset · Brain retraining · Diet · Pacing · Trauma & somatic work

Their path

Very severeSevereModerateMildNear normalRecoveredonset3 y6 y9 y12 y15 y

How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, with time counted from when the illness began. Hover or tap a point. 2 steps have no time and sit in story order between the steps around them. 3 steps say too little to place on the scale and are only in the table. What the levels mean.

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WhenWhat happenedWhere they wereAfter
2009glandular fever, never fully recovered; went back to full-time workit all started in 2009 there I had Clen fever Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsMild
2009 to about 2020health declined for years with more and more symptoms until she was severely ill; diagnosed after 11 yearsover the years my my condition became worse and worse and I got more symptoms and more symptoms Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsSevere
after diagnosiscondition stabilised with pacing, then improved with dropping dairy and a mindset shiftthrough pacing I was really able to stabilize the condition Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsModeratePacing and the energy envelope
—a loved one died in an accident; lost the gains she had madeeverything I yeah I I reached before was was gone because that was really too much for me Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsNot stated
the following two yearstrauma processing with CBT and expressive writing improved her cognitively and emotionally but not physicallyI improved a lot on a cognitive level and on emotional level but not really physically Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsNot statedCBT and psychotherapy
last yearnervous system flared badly after an old-scar treatmenton the way back my nervous was even more through the roof so it was I felt horrible Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsNot stated
time of the interview, about 15 years after onsetmuch improved after starting tension and trauma release exercises, still on her journeyyeah from there my whole Theory Journey started and it changed everything Watch the video ↗From the video’s captionsMildTrauma work (EFT, EMDR, TRE)

Adverse events

Symptoms mentioned

Their words about their symptoms
  • Post-exertional malaiseI will get post exertional Malay Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • POTS & dysautonomiaI also got the diagnosis pots Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Gut problemsI also got the diagnosis IBS irritable bow syndrome Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Pain & fibromyalgiaI also had the fprom myalgia like pain Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Muscle weaknessan extreme muscle weakness and pain Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Flu-like symptomsI had a constant flu like symptoms Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions
  • Anxiety & low moodafter that I fell into a deep black hole and um I really felt terrible Watch the video ↗From the video’s captions

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