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ME/CFS Mild → no benefitIll for 10 years

ME/CFS for ten years, struggling to work 18 hours a week, no improvement from treatments

Condition
ME/CFS
At worst
Mild (working or studying, with limits)
Ill for
10 years
Last post
May 2025
In their words
  • Condition: ME/CFSI have ME/CFS and currently trying modafinil to combat exhaustion. In context ↗
  • At worst: MildI'm struggling to work 18 hours a week. I don't get to spend time with my partner because I'm either asleep or at work. In context ↗
  • Now: No benefitI have been treated for ME/CFS for 5+ years now with no significant improvement. In context ↗
Read from 9 of their posts and comments; links to the 7 this page draws on

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Summary

Harbor 20022, 30, has had ME/CFS for at least ten years and struggled to work 18 hours a week while sleeping 14 to 16 hours a night. Modafinil gave a brief lift in mood but lost effect and brought forgetfulness; CoQ10 did nothing, a month of CPAP did not help, and five years of trying medications and supplements brought little progress. A Mother's Day cave tour triggered a crash followed by persistent evening headaches.

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What they tried

Their words about each treatment
  • CPAP · No changeI tried the CPAP for a month, it didnt help at all, I returned it and moved on to other options. In context ↗
  • supplements, diet, sleep routine · No changeI should be healthy af with all the supplements, diet, sleep routine etc. But nothing works. In context ↗
  • CoQ10 · No changeI tried CoQ10 with no success :( In context ↗
  • modafinil · WorseI started with 200mg, but then didn't sleep for 3 days. Reduced to 100mg and added nightly hydroxyzine. In context ↗
  • hydroxyzine · Not saidReduced to 100mg and added nightly hydroxyzine. In context ↗
  • Lexapro · Not saidI am also on Lexapro and buproprion, and hydroxyzine to help me sleep. In context ↗
  • electrolyte drinks · No changeSo I do have a sodium deficiency, and have been drinking electrolyte drinks for ages. Increased them but no headache change :/ In context ↗
  • hybernation day · HelpedFor a day or two after this, no headaches! ... But then they came back and have persisted. In context ↗

Their path

Very severeSevereModerateMildNear normalRecovered8.5 y9 y9.5 y10 y

How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, with time counted from when the illness began. Hover or tap a point. The chart starts 8.2 years after onset: the story doesn’t say how ill they were before that. 1 step says too little to place on the scale and is only in the table. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.

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WhenWhat happenedWhere they wereAfter
2015ME/CFS began, no definite cause foundI'm 30, had CFS at least the past 10 years, been thru all the diagnostics with no definite answer In context ↗Not stated
September 2023struggling to work 18 hours a week, sleeping 14+ hours, missing family timeI'm struggling to work 18 hours a week. I don't get to spend time with my partner because I'm either asleep or at work. In context ↗Mild
September 2024modafinil gave a brief lift in mood and irritability before losing effectIt seemed to work at first! I still slept a lot but with modafinil, I felt happier and less irritatable. In context ↗MildModafinil / armodafinil
May 2025crashed after a Mother's Day cave tour, then daily evening headachesCrashed that night tho of course, not surprising. However, almost every day since then I've gotten a headache when it starts to near bedtime. In context ↗Mild
2025-05-31still working with rest days, 16-hour nights and occasional hibernation daysI need one every couple months or so, where I wake up for one meal (10-30 mins usually) and that's my "day" In context ↗Mild

Adverse events

  • Modafinil / armodafinil“I started with 200mg, but then didn't sleep for 3 days.” In context ↗ Insomnia from treatment
  • Modafinil / armodafinil“I still feel like I'm losing my mind. I've had to throw so much food away because I left it out on the counter instead of putting it back in th fridge. ... Information just leaves my brain.” In context ↗ Side effects

Symptoms mentioned

Their words about their symptoms
  • Post-exertional malaiseDuring flare ups, I cannot come to work or leave my bed until I have sufficiently rested, usually 1-3 days. In context ↗
  • Sleep problemsI'm sleeping 14+ hours a night without feeling rested. In context ↗
  • Headaches & migrainealmost every day since then I've gotten a headache when it starts to near bedtime In context ↗
  • Gut problemsNot enough sleep and I get a gnarly tummy ache. In context ↗
  • Brain fogInformation just leaves my brain. In context ↗

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