Mostly homebound with ME/CFS, now mild to moderate and pacing to avoid PEM
- Condition
- ME/CFS
- At worst
- Moderate (mostly housebound)
- Ill before improving or writing
- Not stated
- Last post
- Dec 2025
In their words
- Condition: ME/CFS
I was diagnosed with ME/CFS last month after months of severe fatigue and exertion.
In context ↗ - At worst: Moderate
I’ve (31F) been dealing with moderate to severe CFS for the last 5 months ... I’m mostly homebound and I don’t have the energy to cook
- Now: Somewhat better
I'm mild/moderate currently after being more moderate for the last year.
In context ↗ - Began after: glandular fever or EBV
My ME/CFS was caused by EBV
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Read from 22 of their posts and comments; links to the 18 this page draws on
Summary
A 31-year-old woman whose ME/CFS followed EBV had fatigue before it became debilitating in late 2024, leaving her mostly homebound, napping through the workday and sometimes sobbing from exhaustion. B12 shots, folate, omega-3, probiotics, vitamin D and a SAD lamp did not help. She had repeated upswings and crashes, and by late 2025 described herself as mild to moderate, pacing low-energy dates to avoid PEM.
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What they tried
Also tried
Their words about each treatment
- Ritalin · No change
Yes it does nothing for my fatigue. I take it for ADHD. I’m on 40 MG and have been for a while.
In context ↗ - outpatient mental health treatment program · Worse
I just got done with a 2 month mental health program and that made my fatigue 10x worse each day.
In context ↗ - B12 shots · No change
I’ve been doing B12 shots and taking prenatal for folate, omega-3, probiotics, super B, and vitamin D. I’ve also been using a SAD lamp. None have worked.
In context ↗ - SAD lamp · No change
I’ve also been using a SAD lamp. None have worked.
In context ↗ - Wegovy · Worse
I was on Wegovy and developed gastroparesis.
In context ↗ - Klonapin · Not said
I take 10 mg with Klonapin for anxiety or 25 mg with Trazadone if I need it.
In context ↗ - hydroxyzine · Helped
Mine makes me pass tf out. ... I take 10 mg with Klonapin for anxiety or 25 mg with Trazadone if I need it.
In context ↗ - CPAP · Not said
I use my CPAP every night and I had an appointment with my pulmonologist last month
In context ↗ - weed · Worse
I re-experimented with weed in February after I had move to more moderate/severe and that made my ME/CFS way worse on the days I didn’t take it. Stopped it after two weeks.
In context ↗ - 400 mg THC salve · Helped
I use a 400 mg THC salve for my joints. It’s topical so it doesn’t get you high but it helps the joints v much.
In context ↗ - icey hot roll on · Not said
I also use a version of icey hot roll on for my muscles that’s 1000mg
In context ↗ - The ACT for OCD Workbook · Not said
I also have used the The ACT for OCD Workbook
In context ↗ - Flu and new Pfizer COVID vaccine · Worse
I got the Flu and new Pfizer COVID vaccine on Saturday around 7 in the morning. About 12 hours later I started to feel awful.
In context ↗ - pacing · Helped
we've gone on a few more low energy dates which I can pace myself for
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Their path
How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, in the order they describe; they don’t give enough times to place each step. Hover or tap a point. 1 step says too little to place on the scale and is only in the table. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.
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| When | What happened | Where they were |
|---|---|---|
| — | fatigue began, later attributed to EBVMy ME/CFS was caused by EBVIn context ↗ | Not stated |
| November 2024 | fatigue became debilitating; days sobbing from exhaustionMy fatigue got extremely worse in November to the point where I have a couple days a week I’m so fatigued that I sob out of exhaustion.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| February 2025 | worse after re-experimenting with weedI re-experimented with weed in February after I had move to more moderate/severe and that made my ME/CFS way worse on the days I didn’t take it.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| March 15, 2025 | crashed after pushing herself too muchI haven’t had a true crash since March 15th where I probably pushed myself too much and could barely move at the end of the day and the next two days were awful.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| March 22, 2025 | day out of the house without a crashNot only did I sit on the bench for 40 mins in the sun but I also walked 1/4 mile.In context ↗ | Mild |
| April 9, 2025 | crash with sore throat, body pain and noise sensitivityI woke up with a sore throat and my body hurt so much that I wasn’t able to workIn context ↗ | Moderate |
| May 2025 | two-week upswingI’ve been in an upswing the last two weeks feeling really goodIn context ↗ | Mild |
| September 2025 | two days of pain after flu and COVID vaccinesAbout 12 hours later I started to feel awful. I was in a lot of pain yesterday.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| December 2025 | week of PEM after a first dateafter our first date which was just to sit outside and eat poke, the next day my uterus or bladder was in such severe pain and I could barely walk (PEM)In context ↗ | Moderate |
| December 23, 2025 | mild/moderate, pacing low-energy datesI'm mild/moderate currently after being more moderate for the last year.In context ↗ | Mild |
Adverse events
- CBT and psychotherapy“I just got done with a 2 month mental health program and that made my fatigue 10x worse each day.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Semaglutide (Ozempic, Wegovy)“I was on Wegovy and developed gastroparesis.” In context ↗ Gut side effects
- “I gained substantial weight over the last several years due to psychiatric medications (BP2), developing PCOS” In context ↗ Side effects
- Hydroxyzine (Atarax, Vistaril)“If I take it in addition to Klonapin or Trazadone I’m out and it’s even harder to wake up in the morning.” In context ↗ Side effects
- Cannabis (THC, marijuana)“I re-experimented with weed in February after I had move to more moderate/severe and that made my ME/CFS way worse on the days I didn’t take it.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Methylphenidate (Ritalin, Concerta)“I’m on 40 MG and have been for a while. It also can cause really bad crashes” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- COVID vaccination as treatment“About 12 hours later I started to feel awful. I was in a lot of pain yesterday. All my joints felt awful ... I should have spaced them out” Side effects
Symptoms mentioned
Their words about their symptoms
- Post-exertional malaise
the next day my uterus or bladder was in such severe pain and I could barely walk (PEM)
In context ↗ - Brain fog
the brain fog and lack of concentration is serious
In context ↗ - Pain & fibromyalgia
my uterus or bladder was in such severe pain
In context ↗ - Light & noise sensitivity
Noises sounded so fucking loud I had to put in my noise canceling earbuds
In context ↗ - Muscle weakness
my muscles feel so weak
In context ↗ - Anxiety & low mood
My OCD is going rampant right now.
In context ↗ - Flu-like symptoms
I woke up with a sore throat
In context ↗ - Gut problems
I was on Wegovy and developed gastroparesis.
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