ME/CFS: unable to shower standing, needs a cane, still limited after physical therapy
- Condition
- ME/CFS
- At worst
- Moderate (mostly housebound)
- Ill for
- 20 years
- Last post
- Sep 2024
In their words
- Condition: ME/CFS
Latest sleep specialist confirmed I've been dealing with CFS for 20yrs.
In context ↗ - At worst: Moderate
I can no longer shower while standing, i need a cane to walk. I tried working for 2 days and I just couldn't.
In context ↗ - Now: No benefit
My health has declined a lot.
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Read from 16 of their posts and comments; links to the 12 this page draws on
Summary
Kite 68948, 30, traced their CFS to a severe infection at age 10 and was diagnosed at 25. They worked 32 hours a week, had been a team leader, hit a wall in July 2023, had their hours cut and were fired in February 2024. By 2024 they were on unemployment, could not shower standing and needed a cane, sleeping at best three hours a night. Physical therapy helped somewhat and they hoped to return to 16 hours a week, but 15 minutes of exercise still cost three days.
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What they tried
Also tried
Their words about each treatment
- physical therapy · Helped
Had some succes with physical therapy so the next step is to try and see if I can go back to work.
In context ↗ - walking stick / cane / walker · Helped
Bought a walking stick on my birthday this year. ... Things have been better with the stick, and I feel more secure outside.
In context ↗ - Amitriptyline · Helped
I have 25mg dosage, tried to lower it to 15, but even tho I had less brain fog in the morning, I had intense mood swings and completely spiraled, so now I'm back at 25mg.
In context ↗ - Zopiclon · Helped
Had Zopiclon for 2 weeks to get sleeping back up to some energy, but after I stopped I went back to bad sleeping.
In context ↗ - Melatonin · No change
I had Zopiclon, Melatonin, tried different lavender based shampoos.
In context ↗ - lavender based shampoos · No change
tried different lavender based shampoos
In context ↗ - shower chair · Helped
I have to sit down while showering, so I bought a chair for it, It does make it more manageable, but it still drains the energy right out of me.
In context ↗ - weighted blanket, sleep mask, blackout curtains · No change
I already have a weighted blanket, sleepmask with bluetooth audio, blackout curtains. Nothing helps.
In context ↗ - doing tasks sitting down · Helped
Doing tasks in a sitting position instead of standing is also very good for me.
In context ↗ - Switch Ringfit · Worse
I bought a Switch Ringfit so that I did not have to go to the gym. I try so hard. But I need 3 days of rest after 15 mins of working out right now.
In context ↗ - B12 injections · No change
I had a deficiency and had injections for a week. Did not feel a lot better tbh.
In context ↗ - vitamins · No change
I've been taking the vitamins for more than a year now, so I should see results.
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Their path
How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, with time counted from when the illness began. Hover or tap a point. 2 steps have no time and sit in story order between the steps around them. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.
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| When | What happened | Where they were |
|---|---|---|
| age 10 | severe infection at age 10, downhill from there; struggled through primary schoolI had a really bad infection when I was 10.In context ↗ | Mild |
| — | collapsed during college after overwork and near-total insomniaYup, my breaking point was hallucinating in a Primark of all places, I just pretty much collapsed.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| age 25 | diagnosed at 25; cut school to three hours a day and still got their degreeHad to stop doing full time school, only went for 3 hours a day.In context ↗ | Mild |
| — | worked 32 hours a week and became team leaderWorked 32 hours a week, even became leader of my team.In context ↗ | Mild |
| July 2023 | hit a wall at work; hours cut to 8 a weekHours got cut, and suddenly, I was working 8 hours a week because I couldn't go higher.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| February 2024 | health declined a lot after being fired; could not shower standing, needed a cane, could not workI can no longer shower while standing, i need a cane to walk.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| June 2024 | some success with physical therapy; hoping to return to work 16 hours a weekHad some succes with physical therapy so the next step is to try and see if I can go back to work.In context ↗ | Moderate |
| August 2024 | got a walker, which raised their baselineI myself found that my walker significantly raised my baselineIn context ↗ | Moderate |
| September 2024 | still exhausted and sleeping badly; 15 minutes of exercise costs three days of restI need 3 days of rest after 15 mins of working out right now.In context ↗ | Moderate |
Adverse events
- Amitriptyline (Elavil)“tried to lower it to 15, but even tho I had less brain fog in the morning, I had intense mood swings and completely spiraled” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Zopiclone (Imovane)“Absolutely hated sleeping on Zopiclon, it felt worde.” In context ↗ Side effects
Symptoms mentioned
Their words about their symptoms
- Post-exertional malaise
I need 3 days of rest after 15 mins of working out right now.
In context ↗ - Sleep problems
My sleep has been horrible for so long, if I was lucky, I had 3 hours a night.
In context ↗ - Pain & fibromyalgia
My body is constantly tired and in pain
In context ↗ - Brain fog
I'd rather have this fog brain.
In context ↗ - Muscle weakness
I was not able to carry anything anymore for a period of time
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