ME/CFS for over 35 years, bedbound at worst, improved then relapsed
- Condition
- ME/CFS
- At worst
- Very severe (bedbound, unable to do basic care)
- Ill before improving or writing
- 36 years
- Last post
- Jan 2026
In their words
- Condition: ME/CFS
I've had CFS for 35 years
In context ↗ - At worst: Very severe
I was being spoon and straw fed, bed pans and no washing at all.
In context ↗ - Now: Relapsed
There have been times where I've been much better than the first year, but currently I am worse.
In context ↗
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Summary
Acorn 62466 fell ill as a child in the 1980s and had ME/CFS for over 35 years, going from bedbound as a teenager to about ten years at a moderate level where she lived independently, and for a few years could cycle and swim. A breakdown and stress around 2018 led to her worst patch, bedbound and unable to feed herself; she later improved to walking round the house and using a mobility scooter. In recent posts she described being severely affected, with her health still fluctuating.
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What they tried
What they credit
Also tried
Their words about each treatment
- Q10 · Worse
I couldn't cope with Q10. It gave me palps and made me feel dizzy and terrible
In context ↗ - anti-inflammatories · Helped
Medication, not really, only anti-inflammatories.
In context ↗ - nutritional support · Helped
Nutritional support and shiatsu are the only things that have helped as far as I can tell.
In context ↗ - Mirtazapine · Helped
It's worked a treat for me. ... Then they stopped working and gave me lots of nasty side effects.
- D-Ribose · Worse
I tried it for a few weeks gradually increasing the amount, but I never got up to 5g! I felt worse and worse with each increase.
In context ↗ - humidifier · Helped
I use a humidifier right next to my bed and that helps with the nose bleeds a lot.
In context ↗ - probiotics · Helped
When my digestion is getting bad, probiotics and digestive enzymes help to get it going again.
In context ↗ - digestive enzymes · Helped
Digestive enzymes helped somewhat, when GI issues were very bad.
In context ↗ - digestive enzymes with bromelain · Much worse
ones with bromelain in gave me really bad stomach pain for months
In context ↗ - Immunace · Helped
I take an general supplement called Immunace, which makes the flu like symptoms go off quicker IMO
In context ↗ - vitamin B complex · Helped
Vitamin B complex definitely gives me a bit more energy.
In context ↗ - vitamin D · Not said
And taking Vit D is good if you never get any light, which I don't!
In context ↗ - paracetamol · Not said
When I'm in a bad crash I also take a low dose of paracetamol, like one tablet a day.
In context ↗ - compression socks · Helped
I find compression socks help a bit with BP, faintness and palpitations.
In context ↗ - red clover · Helped
I take red clover and evening primrose all through the month to try and regulate my hormones.
In context ↗ - evening primrose · Helped
It does help with swelling and mood.
In context ↗ - Chinese herbs · Worse
I tried chinese herbs years ago, and it only made me worse.
In context ↗ - CBT · No change
I did three months. It was a waste of time and energy.
In context ↗ - GET · Worse
I had GET and it made me rapidly worse.
In context ↗ - propranolol · Worse
I can't tolerate Propranolol at all, as it makes my heart too slow and I can't sleep
In context ↗ - nattokinase · Helped
I'm trying nattokinase ATM, which isn't for energy as such, but helps some people with ME. I have improved a little
In context ↗ - vagus nerve stimulator · No change
Tried two different types. Waste of money that I don't really have
In context ↗ - acupuncture · Much worse
I had the first session and had a very strong crash that lasted about 3 weeks.
In context ↗ - acupressure wrist bands · Helped
Accupressure wrist bands have always worked well for me for any sort of nausea and they also help with the reflux a bit.
In context ↗ - Ultrainflamx · Helped
Probiotics and anti-inflammatories like ultrainflamx helped at least as much as enzymes.
In context ↗ - glucosamine/chondroitin · Helped
Glucosamine/chondrotin and CBD oil helps with the joint pain.
In context ↗ - CBD · Helped
I take CBD every day, which helps with anxiety and joint pain a bit
In context ↗ - meditation · Helped
The other thing that helped was meditation.
In context ↗ - breathing exercises · Helped
Cold water, breathing exercises and vagal massage.
In context ↗ - counsellor · Helped
I've also found a good counsellor.
In context ↗ - affirmations · Helped
And affirmations have helped me in the past with the mental health.
In context ↗ - turmeric · Helped
I take turmeric and antihistamines all the time, and I think they both help a bit.
In context ↗ - quercetin · Helped
For MCAS, antihistamines and Quercetin, help me, I think.
In context ↗ - ashwagandha · Helped
Ashwaganda helped with mood and anxiety.
In context ↗ - calcium carbonate antacids · Helped
I take calcium carbonate antacids for nausea
In context ↗ - sodium alginate antacids · Helped
and sodium alginate antacids for reflux.
In context ↗ - PPIs · Worse
I was on PPIs for ages, but they always made it worse when coming off them
In context ↗ - dulcolax · Not said
I use dulcolax and prune juice.
In context ↗ - lettuce tea · Helped
I drink lettuce tea ... That really works for me, but I wouldn't take it every day, because it stops working.
In context ↗ - blue filter glasses · Helped
I bought some blue filter glasses on your recommendation and they really do help.
In context ↗ - tiger balm · Helped
I find tiger balm helpful for headaches
In context ↗ - vestibular rehabilitation exercises · Helped
I got that back after doing physiotherapist exercises for vestibular rehabilitation.
In context ↗ - heavy metal detox · No change
I did heavy metal detoxes in the 90s and they made no difference at all.
In context ↗ - intestinal detoxes · No change
I have done heavy metal detoxes, and intestinal detoxes and reseeding with good bacteria, and viral detoxes and none of it made any difference at all.
In context ↗ - mineral supplements · No change
I take mineral supplements and I always have, and I am still at the severe end of the scale.
In context ↗ - magnesium · Helped
B vits and magnesium, and turmeric and quercetin help a bit.
In context ↗ - vitamin C · Helped
the only supplements that have made any difference are Vit B complex, and maybe Vit C and zinc. And then not by much!
In context ↗ - glutathione · Not said
I also take a lot of anti-oxidants (Vit C and glutathione).
In context ↗ - amitriptyline · Worse
It helped me too up to 15mg. But over that it made my heart race ... It stopped working after about 8 months for me as well.
In context ↗ - nortriptyline · Much worse
Nortri\[tyline, which is almost the same drug was a million times worse! Couldn't take it for longer than a week or so.
In context ↗ - paroxetine · Not said
Paroxetine gave me no side effects, but had a horrible withdrawal that lasted longer than I was taking the tablets for.
In context ↗ - citalopram · Worse
Citalopram and Nortriptyline I couldn't tolerate the side effects at all.
In context ↗ - keto diet · Worse
It just made me worse. Tried pushing through, but it caused a big crash.
In context ↗ - alternate-day dieting · Helped
The trick for me was dieting every other day. So a diet amount of calories one day and then a holding steady amount the next day.
In context ↗ - cutting out sugar · Helped
I feel a lot better avoiding processed sugar
In context ↗ - healthy/exclusion diet · Helped
Eating healthily, but not in any sort of faddy or extreme way makes a clear difference.
In context ↗ - time · Helped a lot
I never really knew why I got better, apart from time, rest, calm, and good diet.
In context ↗ - rest in a dark room · Helped
Time and rest, in a completely dark room with no sound or stimulus as much as possible.
In context ↗ - pacing · Helped
Try pacing, and always do less than you think you can.
In context ↗ - collagen tablets · Worse
I get the same reaction to collagen tablets.
In context ↗ - salt and water · No change
I've had no luck with water and salt.
In context ↗ - COVID vaccination as treatment · Not said
First jab gave me strong flu-like symptoms for 2 days, and the second one nothing much.
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Approaches: Alternative therapies · Diet · Mind-body practices · Radical rest · Supplements
Their path
How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, with time counted from when the illness began. Hover or tap a point. The first step with a time is 31 years after onset: the story doesn’t say how ill they were before that. The dashed part: the story doesn’t say when. 1 step says too little to place on the scale and is only in the table. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.
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| When | What happened | Where they were | After |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1980s | fell ill as a childI've been ill since the 80s when there were def less EMFs. And I was a kid!In context ↗ | Not stated | |
| teenage years | severe and bedbound as a teenager, back to bedbound for about five yearsI was severe and bed bound when I was a teenager, had a better year, back to bedbound for maybe 5 years.In context ↗ | Severe | |
| best part of ten years before about 2018 | gradual improvement, lived independently and could cycle and swimThen up to more moderate, where I could live independently for the best part of ten yearsIn context ↗ | Moderate | Time and spontaneous remission |
| about 2018 (three years before May 2021) | crashed into her worst patch: bedbound, spoon- and straw-fed, bedpansI was being spoon and straw fed, bed pans and no washing at all.In context ↗ | Very severe | |
| May 2021 | back up to walking around the house and making basic mealsBut I'm back up to being able to walk around the house and make basic meals etcIn context ↗ | Severe | Time and spontaneous remission |
| January 2023 | out on a mobility scooter once or twice a week and sitting up much of the dayI'm not as bad as I was by a long way. I still can't look after myself entirely, but I'm going out on my mobility scooter once or twice a week and I'm in the light, sitting up for a lot of the day.In context ↗ | Severe | Time and spontaneous remission |
| September 2023 | health on the way down again after a good six months in 2022I did have a good 6 months last year where I was really out and about and even got tot he seaside ... My health is on the way down at the moment tho.In context ↗ | Severe | |
| April 2025 | described severe CFS that was getting worseMy health is getting worse and worse and I stopped seeing doctors a couple of years ago.In context ↗ | Severe |
Adverse events
- CoQ10 / ubiquinol“I couldn't cope with Q10. It gave me palps and made me feel dizzy and terrible” In context ↗ Heart rhythm problems
- Mirtazapine (Remeron)“It does give you a hangover the next day when you start it, but it goes after a while, maybe a month.” In context ↗ Side effects
- Mirtazapine (Remeron), Amitriptyline (Elavil), Nortriptyline (Pamelor), Paroxetine (Paxil), Citalopram (Celexa)“I've been on 5 different antidepressants and they all gave me side effects and I hated taking them” In context ↗ Side effects
- D-ribose“I felt worse and worse with each increase.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Mirtazapine (Remeron)“I can tell it makes my brain fog worse in my case, because when I miss a dose, it gets so much better!” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Graded exercise therapy (GET)“I had GET and it made me rapidly worse.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Mirtazapine (Remeron)“I'm on Mirtazipine and I've been feeling disassociation lately” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Mirtazapine (Remeron)“I get to sleep easily and get more hours, but I can't sleep more than an hour at a time.” In context ↗ Insomnia from treatment
- CoQ10 / ubiquinol“Q10 is a stimulant and triggered my POTS immediately, so I stopped it.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Propranolol (Inderal)“I can't tolerate Propranolol at all, as it makes my heart too slow and I can't sleep” In context ↗ Heart rhythm problems
- Chinese herbal medicine (TCM formulas)“I tried chinese herbs years ago, and it only made me worse.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Mirtazapine (Remeron)“I'm currently withdrawing from Mirtazapine, which has triggered a really rough ME crash.” In context ↗ Withdrawal problems
- “ones with bromelain in gave me really bad stomach pain for months, to the extent that I needed a gastroscopy” In context ↗ Gut side effects
- Mirtazapine (Remeron), Amitriptyline (Elavil), Nortriptyline (Pamelor), Paroxetine (Paxil), Citalopram (Celexa)“all sedatives have also given me a hangover the next day, sometimes all day” In context ↗ Side effects
- Amitriptyline (Elavil)“My heart rate and BP went up with each dose and I felt like I had drunk 10 cups of coffee!” In context ↗ Heart rhythm problems
- Amitriptyline (Elavil)“It also caused more depression and suicidal phases in me.” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Amitriptyline (Elavil), Nortriptyline (Pamelor)“was a million times worse! Couldn't take it for longer than a week or so.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Collagen“They started giving me severe stomach cramps a few years ago ... I get the same reaction to collagen tablets.” In context ↗ Gut side effects
- CoQ10 / ubiquinol“Q10 made me very jittery and was exhausting, which made me crash.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Keto and low-carb diets“It just made me worse. Tried pushing through, but it caused a big crash.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Acupuncture“I had the first session and had a very strong crash that lasted about 3 weeks.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Proton pump inhibitors (unspecified)“I was on PPIs for ages, but they always made it worse when coming off them” In context ↗ Withdrawal problems
- Amitriptyline (Elavil)“that raised my BP around 130/90, and I felt completely wired all the time!” In context ↗ Side effects
- Paroxetine (Paxil)“Paroxetine gave me no side effects, but had a horrible withdrawal that lasted longer than I was taking the tablets for.” In context ↗ Withdrawal problems
- Nortriptyline (Pamelor), Citalopram (Celexa)“Citalopram and Nortriptyline I couldn't tolerate the side effects at all.” In context ↗ Side effects
- Amitriptyline (Elavil)“in the long term it pushed me down into a crash, because it was too stimulating” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Amitriptyline (Elavil)“But over that it made my heart race and I was constantly shaking like I had drunk a tonne of coffee.” In context ↗ Heart rhythm problems
- Mirtazapine (Remeron)“I did have incredibly vivid nightmares, like nothing I've ever had before, for the first few months.” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Nortriptyline (Pamelor)“don't take Nortriptyline, as that had no sedative effect and all the stimulant effects and that made me crash extremely badly” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- COVID vaccination as treatment“First jab gave me strong flu-like symptoms for 2 days, and the second one nothing much.” In context ↗ Side effects
Symptoms mentioned
Their words about their symptoms
- Post-exertional malaise
I've had very fast violent crashes and been completely bedbound and unable to eat or drink
In context ↗ - Brain fog
it causes extra brain fog
In context ↗ - POTS & dysautonomia
I have CFS and POTS and vagus nerve problems.
In context ↗ - Mast cell (MCAS) & allergies
I get a histamine reaction around ovulation and around my period.
In context ↗ - Sleep problems
I'm on Mirtazipine at the moment and sleeping 6-7 hours a night. Without it I slept between 2-6.
In context ↗ - Pain & fibromyalgia
I get swollen, painful joints
In context ↗ - Headaches & migraine
I also have chronic vestibular migraine
In context ↗ - Gut problems
My digestive system is a mess and very over sensitive
In context ↗ - Light & noise sensitivity
I can't tolerate music ever
In context ↗ - Heart symptoms & palpitations
When I'm severe, my heart can be too fast or too slow
In context ↗ - Muscle weakness
I couldn't lift my arms or move nearly at all.
In context ↗ - Anxiety & low mood
I've been depressed for decades
In context ↗ - Flu-like symptoms
I get cold type symptoms as part of a crash, but usually mild fever, headaches and bodyaches, and nausea.
In context ↗ - Tinnitus
I need some noise because I have very loud tinnitus
In context ↗ - Temperature regulation
I had years of hot flushes and night sweats
In context ↗ - Vision problems
I do too. I've always had it to some extent, but it's got much worse
In context ↗
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