Severe ME/CFS, once nearly bedbound, now somewhat better with pacing and POTS treatment
- Condition
- ME/CFS
- At worst
- Severe (mostly bedbound)
- Ill before improving or writing
- 9 years
- Last post
- Oct 2026
In their words
- Condition: ME/CFS
I have had me/cfs for seven years.
In context ↗ - At worst: Severe
I’ve been severe for several years, but have leveled out at a somewhat livable moderate.
In context ↗ - Now: Somewhat better
I was severe, but with much better pacing I’m pretty solidly moderate, and have been for about 2 years.
In context ↗
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Summary
At 23 she became suddenly ill after collapsing at a hotel bar, and became severe after trying to exercise her way better; for a year or two she was entirely severe and at times nearly bedbound. Low-dose Abilify eased her fatigue and PEM, but she gained about 60–85 lb and developed a shopping addiction and binge eating that led to hoarding. Strict pacing and POTS treatment helped, and she later lost 70 lb on Mounjaro; she fluctuates between moderate and severe and remains mostly homebound after seven years.
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What they tried
What they credit
Also tried
Their words about each treatment
- Vyvanse and Adderall · Helped
I lost the vast majority of the benefit from stimulants after I got ME/cfs, but they manage to help me feel less miserable.
In context ↗ - nuvaring · Helped
I do nuvaring and put one in/take one out at the same time every 3 weeks because of horrible periods, and now I don’t get them at all. Much better quality of life.
In context ↗ - working out every day (207 days in a row) · Much worse
Worked out like crazy trying to get better, and ended up being severe because of it.
In context ↗ - propranolol · Helped
I was on Propranolol for a long time at 40mg doses and it helped, but it later got bumped up to 120mg to treat migraines
In context ↗ - pacing · Helped a lot
Pacing hasn’t cured me, and it won’t, but it makes things way better.
In context ↗ - low dose naltrexone · Helped
all LDN does for me is reduce chronic pain. That’s definitely helpful
In context ↗ - chiropractor (soft tissue work) · Helped
I see a chiropractor weekly and it’s majorly helped reduce that specific type of pain.
In context ↗ - adenoid and turbinate surgery · Much worse
It’s horrific. I wish I’d never had the surgery.
In context ↗ - Abilify · Helped a lot
Abilify definitely gave me part of my life back and relieved quite a bit of suffering.
In context ↗ - trazodone · Helped
Trazodone 200mg and Doxepin 10mg, along with magnesium citrate, is what finally helped me sleep after about 2 years into having me/cfs.
In context ↗ - doxepin · Helped
Neither one of them really works for me without the other.
In context ↗ - magnesium citrate · Helped
Can’t recommend the magnesium citrate enough, and I normally won’t even take supplements.
In context ↗ - IUD · Worse
But my experience has been horrendous.
In context ↗ - Corlanor · Helped
Ivabradine helped me the most, but it didn’t treat the ME. definitely helped the pots symptoms
In context ↗ - Mounjaro / tirzepatide · Helped a lot
I think overall, tirzepatide made my overall function improve more than anything else
In context ↗ - ketotifen · Helped
I also take Ketotifen, it helps some.
In context ↗ - omeprazole (Prilosec) · Helped
So I started taking 2 omeprazol daily, and it did dramatically help.
In context ↗ - rizatriptan · Helped
The emergency migraine medicine she gave me (which I’ve used successfully when I felt the symptoms coming on even without headache) is Rizatriptan.
In context ↗ - cold showers / ice cold water · Worse
if I step into a cold shower, it shocks my body and my nervous system kind of goes into overdrive…in a bad way.
In context ↗ - paxlovid · Not said
I started paxlovid pretty quickly, and was still testing positive at the 10 day mark
In context ↗ - Hot Tamales cinnamon candies · Helped
so I ordered a ton of Hot Tamales candies. They really did help!
In context ↗ - delta cannabis varieties · Worse
have tried a large variety of the different delta varieties. They actually make it worse
In context ↗ - sleeping on her body's own schedule (4am-6pm) · Helped
I tried to sleep more normal hours for about 6 years but the last 2.5 have been much better just sleeping when my body says to
In context ↗ - Apple Watch with SleepWatch app · Helped
I use the app SleepWatch and that’s how I can track my HR trends, oxygen, restlessness, HRV, etc.
In context ↗ - prednisone · Helped
It’s actually been effective at breaking the migraine too
In context ↗ - Fairlife protein shakes · Helped
I have 2 protein shakes every day, and I’ve been able to stay more stable at moderate/severe instead of falling into severe pretty often.
In context ↗ - air squats and step-ups · Helped
any time I feel like I can handle a couple of air squats…I do them
In context ↗ - rubbing alcohol wipes · Helped
They really help kind of pull my senses away from the triggers, especially smells, and can actually prevent me from vomiting.
In context ↗ - sphenopalatine ganglion (SPG) block · Helped
I have gotten a A sphenopalatine ganglion (SPG) block. Helped a bit with migraine pain so far but I still have a few more scheduled.
In context ↗ - Qulipta (atogepant) · Helped
I get Botox, increased propranolol dose, qulipta daily, and ubrelvy and rizatriptan for rescue
In context ↗ - endometriosis surgery · No change
I don’t feel like this procedure set my ME back, which has blown me away.
In context ↗ - nutrient-focused diet · Helped
The diet that has worked best for me is to ensure I’m trying to eat food that has nutrients.
In context ↗ - Lyrica (pregabalin) · Worse
Had this issue with Lyrica but I’m glad it’s over with
In context ↗ - modafinil · No change
I tried adding 200mg modafinil and it didn’t do anything
In context ↗ - salt, electrolytes (Liquid IV, LMNT) and compression · Helped
drinking lots of salt with liquid IV and LMNT has helped me
In context ↗ - Penta water · Helped
I drink Penta water, it’s really expensive but the only one I’ve found that doesn’t make me vomit when I’m in a bad flare
In context ↗ - moving out of a mouldy house · Helped
I moved into a 90+ years old house of a family member, where you could literally see black mold, and I definitely got worse. But I also improved after I moved out after a year there.
In context ↗ - COVID vaccination as treatment · Worse
third was the sickest I’ve been in a few years
In context ↗ - Cryotherapy and cold exposure · Worse
it triggers fight or flight (which gives me the illusion of feeling better but results in crashing hard)
In context ↗ - Semaglutide (Ozempic, Wegovy) · Not said
I tried Ozempic first and it gave me really bad side effects
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Approaches: GLP-1 drugs · POTS medication · Antihistamines & MCAS · Beta-blockers · Mould avoidance · Other drugs and medicines · Pacing · Supplements
Their path
How ill they were on the ME/CFS severity scale, estimated from what they describe at each point, with time counted from when the illness began. Hover or tap a point. Dates are when they posted. What the levels mean.
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| When | What happened | Where they were | After |
|---|---|---|---|
| January 1, 2017 | sudden onset after blacking out at a bar; became instantly illI got sick at midnight on 12/31/16 or 1/1/17 ... I could hardly walkIn context ↗ | Moderate | |
| October 2017 | after 207 days of working out and still working, could barely care for herself and left her jobI can’t cook for myself anymore. I can’t do my laundry. I hardly brush my teeth.In context ↗ | Severe | |
| 2018 | stopped all work and exercise and felt worse for about a yearWhen I finally stopped everything and rested completely, it felt like I got worse for like a year.In context ↗ | Severe | |
| July 2019 | low-dose Abilify reduced fatigue and PEM; able to do physical therapyLess crippling fatigue, less and shorter PEM, able to do more activities.In context ↗ | Severe | Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole |
| end of 2022 | onset of vestibular migraines with vertigo, vomiting and vision problemsI started getting vestibular migraines at the end of 2022 and it was awful.In context ↗ | Severe | |
| August 2023 | propranolol raised for vestibular migraine; back to ME baselineSo the good news is I’m back to my me/cfs baseline most of the timeIn context ↗ | Moderate | Propranolol (Inderal) |
| January 2024 | settled at moderate with strict pacing; can go out every couple of weeksI went from moderate-severe/sometimes full blown severe to moderate.In context ↗ | Moderate | Pacing and the energy envelope |
| December 2025 | tirzepatide eased the crushing weight of the fatigue; steadier at moderateI’m also able to move around better than I was (even before the weight gain).In context ↗ | Moderate | Tirzepatide (Mounjaro, Zepbound) |
| October 2026 | still moderate and largely homebound, dependent on stimulants to functionI rely on my stimulants for survival at this pointIn context ↗ | Moderate |
Adverse events
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“Unfortunately, it has drastically increased my weight.” In context ↗ Side effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“I got to where I would hardly eat all day then at night I’d binge eat so much that I was getting sick nightly.” In context ↗ Gut side effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“And the shopping got so badly that I had to have help just to clear walking paths through my house” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“my weight went up between 20 and 30 percent over two years” In context ↗ Side effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“I gained 80 pounds and my metabolism is permanently destroyed (confirmed by my other docs)” In context ↗ Side effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“lost all ability to judge impulses and got a shopping additional (this is literally listed as a side affect)” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“My home still hasn’t recovered from the hoarding situation the shopping caused, and I’m in the midst of bankruptcy.” In context ↗ Mood or psychiatric effects
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“couldn’t trust any decision my brain made, and nerve issues woh awful RLS” In context ↗ Nerve pain
- Low-dose Abilify / aripiprazole“after taking Abilify (and even after stopping) and had awful GERD” In context ↗ Gut side effects
- COVID vaccination as treatment“third was the sickest I’ve been in a few years” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- COVID vaccination as treatment“definitely had big declines after the 3 vaccines I got” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Everyday exercise and activity“Worked out like crazy trying to get better, and ended up being severe because of it.” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Everyday exercise and activity“I worked out every day, often twice a day, for 207 days in a row after I got sick. I thought it was making me feel better. It was killing me” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Sinus, jaw and tonsil surgery“he removed my adenoids and turbinates, and butchered it, and I have a non-treatable situation that some people call empty nose syndrome” In context ↗ Other
- Cryotherapy and cold exposure“it triggers fight or flight (which gives me the illusion of feeling better but results in crashing hard)” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- Low-dose naltrexone“neither my ENT or anesthesiologist realized I take low dose naltrexone ... which led to some big time issues during recovery when it prevented the pain killers from working” In context ↗ Other
- “it also lowered my BP and so I had to stop taking it” In context ↗ Low blood pressure or fainting
- Pregabalin (Lyrica)“Had this issue with Lyrica but I’m glad it’s over with” In context ↗ Withdrawal problems
- Semaglutide (Ozempic, Wegovy)“I tried Ozempic first and it gave me really bad side effects” In context ↗ Side effects
- “Makes me twitchy, my mouth and sinuses so dry that I struggle to breath, intensifies every pain I feel” In context ↗ Made symptoms worse
- IUD (hormonal or copper)“Insertion was the most painful thing I’ve experienced” In context ↗ Other
- Propranolol (Inderal)“Also, propranolol can also cause acid reflux (many of us take this for POTS), so we lowered that dosage as well.” In context ↗ Gut side effects
- Tirzepatide (Mounjaro, Zepbound)“I gained and lost a metric shit ton of weight (from Abilify and Mounjaro, respectively) and lost a ton of hair again from rapid weight loss.” In context ↗ Side effects
- Pregabalin (Lyrica)“when I started lyrica again, which had caused weight gain in the past” In context ↗ Side effects
Symptoms mentioned
Their words about their symptoms
- Post-exertional malaise
Whenever I overdo things, my body goes into the adrenaline survival mode, I can’t sleep, and it’s just a different type of misery preceding the actual crash.
In context ↗ - Brain fog
my mind was just stuck in what I described as wet concrete
In context ↗ - POTS & dysautonomia
Dizziness is awful, but mine mainly comes from my dysautonomia
In context ↗ - Sleep problems
a constant battle with both hypersomnia and insomnia
In context ↗ - Pain & fibromyalgia
Joint aches and pains are as well, and additional pains pop up at all times.
In context ↗ - Headaches & migraine
I get several vestibular migraines every week.
In context ↗ - Gut problems
My IBS and vestibular migraines, as well as POTS and chronic pain conditions are also constant.
In context ↗ - Light & noise sensitivity
Visual and aural stimulation is always difficult.
In context ↗ - Heart symptoms & palpitations
Even on 120mg propranolol my heart rate was rarely below 100
In context ↗ - Muscle weakness
I can’t push more than about 5 items of clothing down a clothes rack before my arm is burning and basically maxed out to failure.
In context ↗ - Anxiety & low mood
I had Major Depressive Disorder that was deemed treatment resistant for over 12 years.
In context ↗ - Flu-like symptoms
I always feel like I have the flu, a concussion, a hangover, and a virus all together
In context ↗ - Tinnitus
Lots of ears ringing, dizziness, etc.
In context ↗ - Temperature regulation
I can’t regulate body temperature
In context ↗ - Vision problems
my vision becomes really abnormal/disturbed
In context ↗ - Hair loss
I used to have unbelievably thick, long, wavy hair, but I lost a ton of it when I got sick.
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